“Writers are liars, my dear, surely you know that by now? And yet, things need not have happened to be true. Tales and dreams are the shadow-truths that will endure when mere facts are dust and ashes, and forgot.” - Neil Gaiman - Dream Country
Title: Love You Madly Favourite Lyrics: I don't want to jump in unless this music's thumpin’ All the dishes rattle in the cupboards when the elephants arrive
Why? This is the kind of love song I would have written for my husband if I had any ounce of song writing talent. Love songs are awesome. But
real love, isn’t a giant soppy 'making love out of nothing at all' and
'my heart will go on' kind of mess (Note: Both perfectly good love songs, albeit way over the top for the likes of me!). If you can laugh because you’re just
having that much fun, you’ve got something good. Bonus, the video is
clearly an homage to one of the many cooking shows he likes to watch. If you follow my Facebook or Instagram, you know #thisiswhypaulcooks
I can't resist The feeling's so much stronger now I must make sure To do the things I want to do Life's just too short For answers to your problems
~ ‘I Can’t Resist’ - The Reaction
I’ve spent the last (almost) month reading these outpourings of utter grief and despair from Talk Talk fans around the world. I think reading their sadness just made mine worse. It sucks that someone who was a huge part of your life is just gone. Even if there was never any more presence in your life than perhaps songs (for those who've had the opportunity to meet him, I'll tell you I’m envious, but so happy you had that treasured moment for yourself ). He obviously filled some part of your life with something special and meaningful. I’m a newbie fan, so while I can’t claim years, the short time I’ve had this and him in my life has been wonderful. His music is great. I enjoy it immensely and haven’t really stopped listening since.
I was listening to this song on my way to work today. The opening lines kind of slapped me across the face. I’ve been in a kind of numb state for a while (long
story short - something happened in December, Talk Talk's music helped
me deal with some of it so my life has been interspersed with moments of grooving to Talk Talk’s earlier stuff and general malaise when I read posts from his fans lately. Mark dies and everything that got helped got
tossed out the window and I was a mess. Mood swing anyone?). This past weekend was a particularly low point. I was irritable and didn’t know what to do with myself. I knew what was happening and I am not pleased with myself. I know I’m stronger than this. I’m better than this. But I’ve been letting this, for lack of a better description, mid-life crisis, get the better of me. Mark Hollis’ dying served as a catalyst for it. I think it’s fair to say these lyrics felt like it was his statement for me to move on. For everyone else still grieving, please don’t think I’m being dismissive of your feelings. I just found what I needed to move on. I hope you do soon too, which is why I wanted to share this epiphany (See what I did there? 😉) with you.
Life is too short. There may not be any answers. I’m off to do ALL the things now. After all… to pilfer some more lyrics from him… Life is what you make it.
